Making sense......

Making sense of it all......it takes a while to understand things, understand life, understand people around and more importantly to understand oneself. Life.....it takes an effort to understand , and yes it is still so beautiful even with all that happens around us, irrespective of whatever happens. But thinking too much just takes away the beauty that is there to experience, even when it is very tough. 

For most around , life isn't what it's meant to be. So many wishes, desires, expectations etc...the list is endless and that's one of the reason to feel the misery in one's life.  What would you say to a child born with a fatal disorder that can't be cured. Did the child deserve this, No he didn't and no one  deserves to go through such  pain and suffering at the same time. And yet we feel that we have so much less in our life . Just ponder over this thought, even in this state the child has been provided with some support in the form of a wonderful family, a lovely sibling to hang around. Similarly we are always taken care of even in the moments of despair that we go through. 

An upset, a deal not done , a waiting that's really testing our patience, a health that is taking a longer time to heal and etc....countless and never ending issues. Questions like" how long will this continue" or " why me" or " would I really have peace" or " when would I be able to get out of this situation" . Wouldn't it be wonderful if we just get some answers to the why's , the when's in our life. Life without the why's and when's would be a wonderful life actually.  Imagine, everything happening the way we wanted it, getting everything we ever asked for, all dreams coming true, all wishes granted. Aha! what a blissful life would that be. But I bet, it would definitely lack luster, that we have in our lives at present.

It's overwhelming most of the time, the waiting can get on our nerves, the answers don't come and we search here and there for the right answer. And yet, it doesn't come...and I have no answer but I know exactly how you feeling at this moment, whats going on in your mind. I can feel the pain. But know one thing is all will be fine one day and all is perfect the way it is at the moment. When you accept the reality the way it is, it all starts making sense. Its really very simple, cause in that moment we understand that our choices, our decisions have brought us to where we are at the moment. Just be thankful, at least there is a realization that we are responsible for everything that happens in our life, be it good or bad. For now just wait and  have faith that one day all this that we go through would make sense. Till then makes peace with what is happening.

To simply say....when we notice the smile on the face of a special child and when we feel the smile within us, that's what makes sense, that's what makes it worth to put the extra effort that we always wanted to put forth.

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