The Woman in Us!

Women, do they ever take a break for themselves,  do something that they are fond of, go all for the things that they are passionate about. Does she relax and sip a glass of wine, pamper herself,  read a book, enjoy herself when she wants to. Go to a spa, have a Day's out with her friends,  Yes , A lot women around the world do enjoy their lives, but there are millions around who don't follow their dreams, their passions, they just leave it . 

Especially the ones who give up their dreams for the sake of their family. That's good too, if that is what they want from life. But dreams gone like this, what happens within the inside walls of their lives. Some are too lonely to share anything, they are simply mute. Some just get themselves busy in their housework, with their jobs, so they don't have time to think about their dreams. Some just blame it on their lives, on the games their lives played on them. Forgoing all their dreams. They get so busy with the nitty-gritty of their life, they have no time for themselves. When is the last time did they really felt happy just being themselves, felt having a good time. Just loving themselves for who they are. I doubt very few women would say "yes". so what is it that stops these beautiful souls for aspiring what they dream about, what they want, what makes them happy, what they are passionate about.

Does their happiness depends on others approval.  Yes, it does for a lot of women. The lines on their forehead tell...they are overwhelmed, most of the time. Its time like these, where they want to be hugged and cared for,  to be pampered by their husbands, to be understood by their family members. That they too have feelings, the feelings wants to be expressed and reciprocated. The fear of rejection  is something that deters them even to share what they genuinely feel. Its not about what they feel, the dreams gets lost in their busy worlds. 

Being a Woman, is the most wonderful thing in life. The tenderness, the love, the giving in her is paramount. We just need to love this woman in ourselves, know what is it that makes us happy, make us alive. Be the person we want to be, express ourselves with compassion , in a way that people around understand us.  If that means saying it loud and clear, then we got to say it for the sake of the Woman in Us.! And you will notice, your life is different, beautiful and you are responsible for it..though it took a while to understand it.

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