It's been a different day today...it began on a good note.....all things were going well and suddenly there was that call. My heart just sank for few mins. And once again my thoughts just went through a distant flashback. I knew exactly what the person at the other end must be feeling. I have experienced the same feeling and countless times. And for this one moment I wished and asked myself how long is long, is there no end to what misery someone puts oneself through. I asked myself, what next, what would it take to make things work. or is there nothing left to work. what would be the appropriate approach to this mess. Will this ever end and I don't mean the end of this world. . How long can one be at the receiving end all the time , Is there no respite to what a person goes through. Constant abuse...abuse of any kind and it simply goes on...just because someone else decides to put the blame ..And all one is left with searching a solution and that too as quickly as possible...lest the time slips away . Just blanks out...and what we are left is the moment that is there and only think about what the next step will be.
How much do people suffer all the time..with their expectations, the expectations sky-rocket and then the disappointments just follow. And how well do people handle disappointments. Not well. Anger, hatred, jealousy, shame, guilt and more important a deep fear. A fear that can be so crippling , that to come out of it would require a lot of effort of the person. what will happen now? is this the end of my dream that I had earlier and began working on it. What will people think? how can I go back to something that I left long time. This even leads at times to the blame game and it's rampant, no stopping and when this happens.....one can be sure that no constructive solution can ever make its way up to solve the issue that happened in the first place.
There is no forgiveness of any kind to someone who might have sinned unintentionally or intentionally . Is there nothing in this world that cant be forgiven or healed. Why so much bitterness in life....its not just for others, but what it does to oneself....its total misery, so much suffering is unnecessary and at what cost. It only messes up the beautiful life that once was. How long will one continue this life, with no forgiveness, with fear all the time, with blame for everything that ever happened.
Healing and acceptance happens only when we let go of the pain, the misery, the disappointments that happened.in the past and the present...and its not letting go of someone we loved. Its beyond that...when one let go of something, its actually a freedom of our self.
4 comments:
yes true forgiveness is the biggest of the virtue!!! well said when u forgive its u who is at peace..even God forgives our mistakes and sins, so we can forgive others and ourselves too!!!! very beautifully written!!!
Thanks....forgiveness is the way..and letting go without any ill feelings!
very true.I think this is what life is about.But how many people believe in forgiving no matter who is at fault.The person who has gone through pain can't forgive because the pain is so much high and received without fault and other person not will not forgive because of egoistic nature(mean can give pain but cant accept pain).But forgiving does helps not to others but your soul.
Darshita
Forgiveness is the key to the inner peace, to the solace! only when we let go completely we can have the life that we so deserve to enjoy
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