At Peace..........

It was the umpteenth call of the day and as I kept the receiver down. For a moment, I glanced on the open page in my diary and turned few pages back. The one thing that I noticed...every call, every session that I have taken till date...all of them, the people wanting to find solace in their lives. Everybody needs peace in their lives and in some way they aspire everyday that the healing happens and they are at peace with themselves. Issues keep arising, and an assurance at that moment gives us the peace that we have been looking at. But this can be a temporary relief and we come back to the same feeling of uneasiness  and wanting peace, searching frantically for the answers. There are scars, which run deeper than what we see on the surface and it takes time to heal. And when the healing does happen , then the Peace simply follows.

There are countless issues everyone tackles all through out and need the much awaited healing...Just a touch , a small gesture, a hug, a I-Care is enough to start the process of healing. But even this process gets delayed....the waiting, the apprehension, that one call, that one project, that one smile, that one yes, that one report, that one moment, that one deal, that one person.........it simply is endless. This follow with misery and it takes a while to come out. For some the heart breaks, the financial losses, the deteriorating health, the unexpected accident, relationship gone sore etc......can put them into a never ending spin in a deep abyss. and this leads to unresolved feelings of  sadness, anger, resentment or un-forgiveness.

The things that we aspire other than being successful, is respect, appreciation , acknowledgement ( the list is endless) for the effort that we put in..for what we believe in and yet even with all this we ain't happy , there's too much of misery going on . The journey isn't going the way we want it to go at times. Questions that most ask is " how do I live in a world, when things happen which I cant control?" " how can I find peace when I do things that I don't want to do or don't do thing that I want to do?" "how do I make someone love me the way I love the person?"...."would I be ever happy in this life?" would he/she be able to manage without me?"

If we only notice and see that with every step , in every moment of our life...there is always a healing that is  already taking place , already happening without our knowledge. It is the support that comes along in the guise of a friend, of a parent, of a tangible thing that leads us to what we are aspiring to have, it is the acceptance of the situation as it is and dealing with it in a way that helps the process of healing to happen, it is our attitude, that gets us through this journey. We can still do a lot, there's always a turn somewhere for the good, there is always something that can lift our spirits high up..be it music, be it a sport, be it a call from a distant friend, be it an article that catches our attention, be it the soft touch of our little one..tapping our cheek. Yes, this isn't the solution to the issues that we face, but yes..if we only look at these small little miracles that keep happening that will definitely lead us to the peace we have always wanting to experience. The calmness that is felt in these moments is what  Peace is all about.  And it is during these moments of peace, we just get our wishes, our desires granted.The unexpected just happens only in the moments of such wonderful peace.

Share